Q&A: my grandpa died?
Question by HORSE CRAZY CHICA!: my grandpa died?
and everyone else in my family has moved on. but he and i were really close and i cant stop crying. i miss him so much! he was so healthy when he died. my grandma on the other side of the family said, right after we buried him, “time to move on with our lives!” im so mad at her and im mad at my family for not feeling sadder and i want to try to move on but its been almost a week and i miss him sooooooo much!!!
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Answer by Cossak
oh…dear….how old was he been?
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god bless him!
it takes time but you cant just tell yourself “move on” and do it. you will move on when you are ready
For me you need to move on… Sometimes it’s hard to leave the past and go on to the present but believe me you’ve got to move on… Your grandpa will be sad if he sees that one of his love ones is still sad because of his death… It’s okay to be sad that’s natural but you’ve got to be brave
Hon, everyone mourns at their own pace. Forget the anger and get on with your life. It doesn’t mean you have to forget grandpa or stop mourning him, just live your life and let others live their own lives. They all love him as much as you did, but their priorities and their rates of mourning are just different than yours. I am so sorry for your loss, Hon.
I’m sorry for your loss I’ll pray that you are able to heal.
Some people deal with grief other than others. There is an end to everything, some people accept it right away, others, like you, need a period of time to put things in order and process your feelings and the like. The way I see it, you can grief about your loved ones, but think of the happy times you had with him, chin up and get the kind of life your grandpa would be proud of you to have.
Everybody passes away unfortuanly but it’s life and you have to deal with it … everybody also has differnet ways to griveing and dealing witth a death … I’m really sorry to here about it, but it will all get better you will always miss and love him, but he’s in a better place!!
Oh sweetie I am so sorry. I know how you feel. My grandpa died 5 Years ago and I still histerically cry over him. I was his favorite grandchild. I can’t seem to move on either. My grandma has gone out with two guys since he died. Yeah I hate it. It makes me cringe. Just breathe and write a poem or something about how you feel. I hope it helped!!
….Lovely….
Don’t be mad people have different way of coping with death. Not many people do show their true reaction to something big such as death. I remember when my grampy passed away I never felt anything because I was in shock but after a week or two, there were days that I couldn’t go to sleep. All I wanted to do was crying. I felt angrier for not saying GOODBYE…and kiss him one more time…
I am so sorry for your loss, you have my deepest sympathy, and it will take time for your heart to heal….
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS I LOST MY MOTHER IN 2004 AND I STILL HAVE A HARD TIME WITH IT SOMETIMES TIME HEALS ALL IF YOU WANT TO CRY THEN CRY LET IT ALL OUT LIFE SOMETIME ISN’T FAIR MY MOTHER AND I WERE CLOSE TO AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY SAID THE SAME THING SO I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I JUST HAD MY MOURNING AND I STAYED IN MY ROOM AND CRIED ALOT AND ASKED WHY DID IT HAPPEN THIS WAY MY MOTHER WAS STARVED AND THIRSTED TO DEATH AND THEY GAVE HER SOT TO END HER LIFE I WENT THROUGH THE CEILING AND I TRIED TO STOP IT BEFORE ANY OF THIS GOT OUT OF HAND BUT I COULDN’T MY MOTHER WAS STILL FIGHTING TO STAY ALIVE I WILL NEVER TALK TO MY SISTER AGAIN I PAID FOR MY MOTHER’S CARE AND EVERYTHING ELSE AND MY SISTER PAID NOTHING SHE PUT HER TO SLEEP BECAUSE SHE CLAIMED SHE WAS RUNNING OUT OF MONEY (THAT I PAID FOR HER CARE WITH) SHE PAID NO MONEY OUT OF HER POCKET I THINK IT WILL TAKE YOU SOME TIME TO GET OVER THIS DO YOU HAVE SOMEONE YOU CAN TALK TO THAT HELPS I DON’T DEAL WELL W/ DEATH I LIKE THE LIVING ALOT BETTER LIVE IS SO PRECIOUS
just be glad u got to spend tym with him….
i neva got to met my grandpas
Hey sweety,
I know it’s hard…. It’s been almost two years since my baby cousin died right next to me…. I am still angry and mad and I still cry, scream, rant, and have sleepless nights over her.
I can’t say time heals all wounds, even mine is still fresh. But we can’t let our sadness take over our lives. We cannot become empty voids.
If we let these wounds continue to fester, we will lose ourselves completely, and you won’t be the happy, cheerful, loving young woman your grandfather knew and loved with all his heart.
Be strong sweety, I know it is SOOOO hard, but you have to try. For him, for your family, but most of all, for yourself.
God Bless you, and if you need to talk, email me and we’ll talk okay?