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Q&A: I’d like to have your point of view.?

Question by Susie: I’d like to have your point of view.?
He broke up cause he says that I nag and I treat him like he’s 10. I’ve never asked him to help me with the chores, when he doesn’t work, he spends a lot of time playing video-games; I tried to find amusing things to do together, like going to a karaoke : he got mad when a man talked to me; I cooked a refined dinner, candles, music : he ate his dinner and went back to video-games; I signed him up to the gym I go to : he just went once and walked all around the track 3 times while I was working out then he said he wanted to go back home and drink beer; I rented movies to watch together : he says he doesn’t like chick flicks (I rented “The heartbreak kid”, “Flightplan” “Meet the parents” and “Sicko”….). I always have dinner alone, because he’d rather grab something from the fridge and when I told him he would have been better for him to eat healthier, he said “I’m not 10, I don’t want you to tell me do this and that, you want to control my life”. I don’t understand. I’m not that way.
Yes, Denis, I left Paris (France), a town that I adore, I filed for a divorce (I’d been separated for 3 years, but had never asked for a divorce), a 3 bedroom apartment to live in a 1 bedroom one; since I couldn’t bring all my furniture here, I gave it all to my ex-husband. How stupid and naive, isn’t it ? Really, if somebody had related me such a story, I would have thought “What a dumb !”.
I guess love makes you dumb. Sometimes.

Best answer:

Answer by Spaceboy
Honestly?
I think he is gone…interested in someone/something else. All the things you’ve doen were great…any guy would be lucky, but he is not at that place in his life where he will appreciate you.
Move on.
He’s not worth it.

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6 Responses to “Q&A: I’d like to have your point of view.?”

  1. Denis B says:

    Girl, you need to re-think your relationship. Is this what you want ? if not then make the necessary changes and dump this loser…………why work so hard at something, that the other person isn’t interested in ? he won’t change unless, you change and make him be on his own………
    Wait a minute aren’t you the French girl who gave up everything to be with this idiot ?

  2. *sparkles* says:

    u better off without him ….. go and find someone who isnt so selfish

  3. the_hedda_lettuce says:

    Sounds like he did you a favor by ending the relationship.

    You made things too easy for him. You carried 98% of the load in the relationship and all he did was take you for granted.

    Next time, find someone that’s willing to be involved with the relationship 50 / 50.

  4. tj says:

    Find yourself a secure man and dump this guy.Sound like your worth more than what you have.

  5. Bryan K says:

    Way TOO many negatives. Its like trying to fix up a $ 500 car. Not worth it. Find someone that you have these things in common with and you won’t have to nag, or go to the gym alone, or watch movies alone. Get my point?

  6. grimstress says:

    how much rent is he paying to live in your head? i am sure he is over it and so should you. he just wanted out and put the blame on you. all what you said sounded like good advie to me. if he doesn’t want to change for the better that’s on him. don’t question yourself. you were just looking after him like any good woman does.

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