Comments on: I’m very young but I have this horrible intense fear of Death/Dying, what do I do?

By: Oct06

Oct06 — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 22:58:48 +0000

dont worry about it,
you can only sense thing as long as you are alive,
you dont feel a thing when you’re dead, so why fear?

By: James C

James C — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 22:01:12 +0000

New 2010 published book called ‘EVIDENCE of the AFTERLIFE by Jeffrey long, MD is very very convincing collection of thousands of Near Death Experiences. Web site http://www.NDERF

By: peacelove

peacelove — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 21:31:24 +0000

To help yourself, you need to know Jesus Christ, God’s Son, and our bridge to God. God is our Creator and God is love. God can help you live a better life and keep you from the fear of death. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end — time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God’s Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God’s blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can’t explain the world’s natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner’s prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: “Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus’ name, amen.” I’m Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church youth group or Bible study group to learn about God’s will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.

By: RED

*RED* — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 20:35:21 +0000

Live each day with a goal to enjoy yourself, tell family members and love ones you Love them. Enjoy doing what your interest is in Life and have a good night’s sleep. good luck!

By: Forrest Gump

Forrest Gump — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 20:03:55 +0000

Hey, i once feared death a lot too, the eternalness of it, the nothingness, i too don’t believe in a life after death either, im Atheist, dont belive in God, life after death, nothing superstitios and never will.
What made made me not think about it was just thinking of my dreams, things i really want to do in life, furthermore, the thought that once im dead, i wont feel any anxiety of being dead because ill be dead lol.
Life will move on when were gone, there will still be happiness in the world.

I think that with time, your fear will go away, watch some inspiring movies about life, read some good books, follow your dreams, and soon you will not fear death, and instead feel almost ambivalent about it as i now do.

Watch these movies,
Into the Wild
Creation
Dead Poets society
Seven pounds
Touching the Void
Crash
Alive
The Curious case of Benjamin Button

All movies about life and lessons to be learnt.
You should read books on philosiphy and such.
Good luck, im sure you will be fine.

By: John

John — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 19:46:07 +0000

mathematically, the number of ghost sightings a year is to high to be statistically all lies or mistakes
therefore, it is highly probable of an afterlife
lets say there has been 1000000 reported ghost sightings in human history, lower than probable
if everyone lied, was crazy, or mistaken, except for 1, the percentage of that chance is extremely small and improbable, but that one is enough to prove the afterlife
i believe in reincarnation, so i used to fear death, but have no more fear anymore

By: Naguru

Naguru — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 19:05:34 +0000

If you do sincere meditation, you may be able to get enlightenment like Lord Buddha.

By: Jimbo Jones

Jimbo Jones — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 18:17:33 +0000

Kid, welcome to reality…

Join the rest of the Human race, smell the roses, have a coffee.

The general populous however ignore they’re insecurities about their life by inventing distractions, like Taxes…Insurance…Work…Football(soccer in your case, i’m guessing, You must really hate Gerrard)

Hey as Iron Maiden once said, ” As soon as your born, your dying…”
Life’s a bitch, then you marry one….

By: take_the_gun

take_the_gun — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 17:49:11 +0000

Just remember that if it is a black “nothingness” you wont suffer anymore. But this seems to really be affecting your life, which I have to say, I recommend you see a therapist. And unfortunately there is no scientific evidence to an after-life since the dead can’t just come and “speak” to us. I believe you either believe in an after life or not.

By: Yami S

Yami S — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 17:11:33 +0000

to you my friend…I have THREE words:

Marcus Aurelius’ meditations

read it, love it