Comments on: Forgave my controlling/abusive family , But now it just feels strange ? http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/ Start your healthy life from our healthy blog! Thu, 15 Dec 2011 18:33:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Intro Thinker http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5035 Intro Thinker Mon, 15 Aug 2011 21:42:36 +0000 http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5035 Your family sounds exactly like mine. I mean exactly. The brother who pretends to be such a nice guy then turns into a whole different person once he doesn't get his way: Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. The mother who is overly demanding and swears at you and tells you nasty things because you don't suck up to her 24/7. The father who would physically and emotionally abuse you when you were younger, and is still emotionally abusive and tries to be physically abusive. Get the hell out of there. You don't want to be stuck to your brother, because if you get that job, you will feel as though you 'owe' him, and he'll make sure to make you feel like that. Get away from them, and go make a new life, and make it clear to them that you don't want to deal with them unless they're willing to make a change, which they probably never will be. You don't deserve that crap. They aren't even worth your time. Just remember you've done what you can and there's nothing else you can do. Good luck. Your family sounds exactly like mine. I mean exactly.
The brother who pretends to be such a nice guy then turns into a whole different person once he doesn’t get his way: Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
The mother who is overly demanding and swears at you and tells you nasty things because you don’t suck up to her 24/7.
The father who would physically and emotionally abuse you when you were younger, and is still emotionally abusive and tries to be physically abusive.

Get the hell out of there. You don’t want to be stuck to your brother, because if you get that job, you will feel as though you ‘owe’ him, and he’ll make sure to make you feel like that. Get away from them, and go make a new life, and make it clear to them that you don’t want to deal with them unless they’re willing to make a change, which they probably never will be.
You don’t deserve that crap. They aren’t even worth your time. Just remember you’ve done what you can and there’s nothing else you can do.
Good luck.

]]> By: Tiffany Kemp http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5034 Tiffany Kemp Mon, 15 Aug 2011 21:34:59 +0000 http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5034 Any answer I give would be an opinion. Ultimately it is your decision.You only live one life,only get one chance to get it right and be a happy person. Some people are not good for us in any way and it seems unfortunate that those people are your family. If I were you, I would get the hell out of there and continue a long distance relationship with the family, or none at all. Your choice. Any answer I give would be an opinion. Ultimately it is your decision.You only live one life,only get one chance to get it right and be a happy person. Some people are not good for us in any way and it seems unfortunate that those people are your family. If I were you, I would get the hell out of there and continue a long distance relationship with the family, or none at all. Your choice.

]]> By: gtggtggone http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5033 gtggtggone Mon, 15 Aug 2011 20:49:22 +0000 http://www.1pharmacy.net/2011/08/forgave-my-controllingabusive-family-but-now-it-just-feels-strange-4/#comment-5033 Can you afford a place far far away from them? If yes, then go! You're old enough to live on your own! You need a job for that, and reliable contacts that you can depend on when you need help, 1 or 2 close friends. I live in a family like that,well not exactly but they still do get on my nerves and I decided the best solution for me is to live away from them, but still maintain contact once in a while (in your case, I would suggest once every 2 years in case they start following you :S ) Can you afford a place far far away from them? If yes, then go! You’re old enough to live on your own!
You need a job for that, and reliable contacts that you can depend on when you need help, 1 or 2 close friends.
I live in a family like that,well not exactly but they still do get on my nerves and I decided the best solution for me is to live away from them, but still maintain contact once in a while (in your case, I would suggest once every 2 years in case they start following you :S )

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